In this entertaining and thought-provoking book, Tim presents a revolutionary new way of looking at our relationships and why they can be so problematic and then he goes on to offer some refreshing, new advice as to what we can do about it.

The book's basic premise is that most of us believe in a wide range of myths about men and women, love and relationships that we have never questioned. It is our unquestioned belief in these myths that confuses us and makes us unhappy in our relationships.

To help readers understand the power of myths in our lives, Tim identifies some of our most common relationship myths. And then he shows us how we can free ourselves from them. The result is much greater clarity, joy and love in our relationships.

Some of the myths Tim unveils are:·
- A relationship can only work if you compromise
- I need a partner to be happy
- My happiness is dependent on my partner
- If you love me, you'll do what I want
- I'm more selfish than my partner if I don't do what my partner wants
- I know what is best for my partner
- It's better to be in a relationship than to be single
- Strong sexual attraction means we're a good match

Every time you believe that reality should be different than it is right now, you suffer. It's actually that simple." - Tim Ray
"When it comes to relationships, there are self-help books all around the world, but I've never read anyone who has done so much research into 'what happens to the hero and heroine after they finally get each other' as Tim Ray" - Jane Aamund - Denmark's leading woman writer and author of countless bestselling books.
"An entertaining and courageous book that shows us how we can experience more happiness in our relationships by questioning the traditional way of doing things. I warmly recommend this book to everyone who's interested in personal development" Joan 0rting Denmark's leading sexologist, couples therapist, TV host, and best-selling author.